Finding Myself, One Mile at a Time
The Back Story
The Back Story

The Back Story

Sometimes the painful tragedies in life take you down paths you couldn’t expect. 

On the heels of the sudden death of my mother, and the breakdown of a 5 ½-year relationship, I decided to give up my ‘bricks and sticks’ existence and see where life took me.  I joined a few pet sitting websites, booked a flight to California, and embarked on a year of intentional homelessness. 

Sandy Cove, Burin Peninsula, Newfoundland

I learned that anything less than 2 weeks leaves me unsettled, that I get anxious leading up to a relocation, and that I’m far less rigid than I thought I was.  I met amazing people, lived in beautiful houses, reconnected with old friends, and dipped my toes in both the Pacific and the Atlantic oceans. 

When I returned to Ontario in August, I was immediately swept up in a flurry of summer festivals, family reunions, and all the life maintenance that falls through the cracks when you’re off having new adventures. At the same time,  I felt a little lost, disconnected, ungrounded.  I needed a ‘home’, but I wasn’t ready to stop moving from place to place.  I contemplated many options; a park model trailer within an hour of my hometown, a tent trailer or a-liner that I could tow with my station wagon, selling my car and buying a camper van like my grandma had when I was 5, or perhaps a motorhome. 

Since Facebook is very aware of the thoughts on my head, it didn’t take long for an ad for a Sprinter based c class motorhome to find its way into my feed.  After two trips to look at it I knew I’d found what I was looking for.  Decent fuel economy, ample storage, a spare bed for guests, and a shower I could imagine shaving my legs in. 

So I did it…  Sold the car, cashed in an investment account, and committed to life on the road.  I hope you’ll come back for a visit from time to time and see where I’ve gotten to.

5 Comments

  1. Dorothy McLean

    Liz just sent me a link to your blog. I’m so glad she did! I’m enjoying reading this. Love the photos too. I don’t do Facebook so I sometimes miss out on things. Your title, “Drifting Bravely” is inspired. I look forward to following along on your adventure! Love, Dorothy

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